Safe sex means taking steps before and during sex that canprevent you from getting an infection, or from giving one to your partner.
You can’t get a sexually transmitted infection (STI) the first time you have sex.
You can’t get an STI from oral sex.
A female condom isn’t as good as a male condom at protecting against HIV.
Using a male condom and a female condom together gives you double protection.
You can’t use condoms if you’re allergic to latex.
The best place to carry condoms is in your wallet, so you’ll always have one.
Using a lubricant with a condom makes it less likely to break.
Which activity increases your risk for an STI?
Having more than one sexual partner
Using alcohol or drugs
All of the above
The best condoms are those with nonoxynol-9.
Which is the surest way to avoid STIs:
Wearing a condom
Delaying your first sexual experience
Having a monogamous relationship
Douching can help protect you from HIV.
A sexually transmitted illness (STI) is an infection that can bespread to another person through sexual contact. These infections include:
STIs are also called sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
These infections are spread by direct contact with a sore on the genitals or mouth,body fluids, or sometimes the skin around the genital area.
Before having sex:
- Get to know your partner and discuss your sexual histories
- Don't feel forced into having sex
- Don't have sexual contact with anyone but your partner
Your sexual partner should be someone who you know is free from any STI. Before having sex with a new partner, each of you should get screened for STIs and share the test results with each other.
If youhave an STI such as HIV or herpes, let any sexual partner know before you have sex. Allow him or her to decide what to do. If you both agree to have sexual contact, use latex or polyurethane condoms.
Use condoms for all vaginal, anal, and oral intercourse.
- The condom should be in place from the beginning to the end of the sexual activity. Use it every time you have sex.
- Keep in mind that STIs can be spread by contact with surrounding skin areas. A condom reduces your risk.
Other tips include:
- Use lubricants. Theymay help reduce the chance that a condom will break.
- Use only water-based lubricants. Oil-based or petroleum-type lubricants can cause latex to weaken and tear.
- Polyurethane condoms are less prone to breaking than latex condoms, but cost more.
- Using condoms with nonoxynol-9 (a spermicide) may increase the chance of HIV transmission.
Stay sober. Alcohol and drugs impair your judgment. When you are not sober, you might not choose your partner as carefully. You may also forget to use condoms, or use them incorrectly.
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The female condom - illustration
The female condom
The male condom - illustration
The male condom
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Review Date: 5/31/2012
Reviewed By: Linda J. Vorvick, MD, Medical Director and Director of Didactic Curriculum, MEDEX Northwest Division of Physician Assistant Studies, Department of Family Medicine, UW Medicine, School of Medicine, University of Washington; and Susan Storck, MD, FACOG, Chief, Eastside Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Group Health Cooperative of Puget Sound, Bellevue, Washington; Clinical Teaching Faculty, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, University of Washington School of Medicine. Also reviewed by David Zieve, MD, MHA, Medical Director, A.D.A.M. Health Solutions, Ebix, Inc.